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What does she have, that I don't? You can
learn her secrets (what they call the "IT" quality) to
capture (or recapture) his heart and yes, even get him to share more
of his feelings with you. Discover how easy it is to go around his
defensive wall and be with him, where he feels safe enough to open up
and give you the intimacy and love you both desire. Here are a few
simple secrets every woman should know:
Men need to feel successful, so-much-so that, to a man, failure
is death. For them, if they fail, they no longer feel like men. It's why
most men commit suicide, which they do more often than women.
Men are most attracted to happy women who genuinely like
themselves and who enjoy being women. When you're happy, he feels
successful. When you're a bottomless pit who never seems pleased by anything
he does, he finally gets worn out and leaves.
Men hate it when a woman tries to change them. What it tells them
is that they're not okay the way they are. That makes them feel attacked,
which makes them put up defenses against those attacks...against you. A
defended man cannot love a woman the way she wants. You can help him
dismantle those defenses and once again open his heart to loving you...like
in the beginning of your relationship when he thought you were the most
wonderful woman on the planet.
Since they were boys, men have been taught not to feel.
"Pick yourself up, don't cry, be a man." Those messages were taken
to heart and as men, the only person they feel at all comfortable being
intimate with, sharing at least a little of what's going on inside of them,
is their wife. He'll begin to share things he may have never told you
before, no matter how long you've been married. You really are his only
source of intimacy.
When you get engaged it's the beginning of a fantasy-come-true.
But he didn't pretend wedding when he was a boy, he doesn't buy
"Groom" magazine and plan his wedding. For him, it's very much a
financial decision and a willingness to take on some very big
responsibilities. When you understand what he's going through, he'll see how
unique and special you really are. He won't want to risk losing you.
This article was written by Kara Oh
published at: http://www.alluringyou.com,
Kare Oh is author of "Men Made Easy"
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