Sarah paid for her lunch and looked around
for somewhere to sit. Dion was sitting at a table with a couple of friends.
. He smiled at her and looked away. Was he flirting with her? She felt her
heart pounding faster, noticed those wobbly feelings in her stomach. She
could feel her skin flushing and her breathing was erratic. She really
really liked him. She had never wanted anything more at that moment than to
be able to smile back, walk confidently over to his table, keeping regular
eye contact, sit down, look into his eyes and say Ďhi, mind if I sit with
But she couldnít do that. No Way. Yuk.
Then heíd know she liked him and if he didnít like her back sheíd feel
so stupid. Everyone would see her being rejected. sheíd feel bad and
embarrassed. No Way. She shuddered as she listened to herself telling her
how bad it could be. The thought of that was too awful to think about. She
couldnít risk that happening to her. No Way.
She looked away and down to her left,
feeling BAD. The feelings in her stomach were different somehow, not
pleasant at all. Not like those she had when she thought of Dion and her
together. She sat down and slumped forward, toying with her food, a scowl on
her face. And anyway, she said to herself, why would he fancy me, Iím too
fat, Iíve got a spot on my nose and my ears stick out. She started to feel
very depressed. She pushed away her tray, and rushed out of the room.
ďAnother opportunity lostĒ, she said to herself. ďSarah you are
But somewhere deep down inside lies a good
fairy whose task is to make Sarahís life wonderful. We all have one.
be continued as below...
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Itís the memory of how we were once
before people started telling us stupid stories about how life should, is
and must be. Itís who we are, uniquely wonderful, open and happy and
curious about the world around us. Itís us smiling and waking up each day
thinking about what wonderful things might happen. Itís us knowing
whatís wonderful about us and knowing we can have anything we want and the
world is a magical place. Itís how we were when we were babies.
We all know how to do it because we can go
back into memories of those times, sometimes memories that we canít
consciously recall. And you have had those moments when you were being you,
and everything worked out brilliantly.. and thatís whatís going to save
Sarah and to save you.
Because what I do is show people how to get
back to how they were before they learned how to criticise, hate, despise
and be angry with themselves because you donít match up to someone
elseís ideal. The only ideal you have to match up to is that which is you.
And if you are feeling bad about yourself, itís because you are trying to
be something you arenít meant to be. Something that one person or many
people over a period of time have told you is the way to be.
You have been programmed with beliefs that
may not suit you. If they donít you can learn to get rid of them and start
believing in things that empower you and give you hope and motivate you.
It takes time, and for some they are ready
to be shot off into space and soar. Others have to climb out of their hole,
shake themselves off.
We all have different ways of learning and
making progress in improving our lives. There is no standard only a
requirement that you do want to become better and you are prepared to put in
the work or play!
In this column, I will be discussing the
stuff you write to me about. I get letters from people all over the world,
and you know, most people have the same challenges. We give labels to them
like Fear of Rejection, or Lack of Self Esteem. But you know, all of them
stem from the same thing. If you have these problems, it is because you
arenít being yourself enough or arenít liking yourself. And one thing I
want you to know from the off is that Iím no guru. I donít sit here
living the perfect life telling you all how to live your lifes. I am a
person living my life, trying to do what I love doing, pay the rent, help
other people, be a friend to people, working on a relationship. I struggle
to communicate sometimes and sometimes I wake up feeling depressed or
stressed. And each time it happens I think about it, talk about it and write
about it and then I have to do what I tell others to do. So Iím in there
with you. Sometimes I have Ďfear of rejectioní and I hesitate to
communicate. Sometimes I feel unattractiveÖ but I know how to get out of
it and get back to being me, at my best, truly wonderful and
magnificent..and then life becomes sweet and great. And thatís all Iím
offering to you. Some insights, some stories and some things to think about
If you are reading this and still are, then
you are definitely ready to take steps to change your life. You read on
because something drew you. Think of this as a door, and when you enter it,
you enter a room with many other doors. Some will be doors that I show you
and some you will become aware of as you open yourself out. Have fun and
remember itís the adventure of YOUR life. Are you watching it go by or are
you on it, living every momentÖ ?
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P.S. - Peta Heskell is author of the book Flirt Coach published in the USA by Harper
Collins/Thorsons in June 01. You can access her website at:www.flirtcoach.com
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