Is he really into love at first sight or is he addicted to the idea of it? Are you an attraction
Too good to be true?
“He’s warm, he’s emotional, he’s intelligent, he’s funny, he loves his work and to cap it all he’s
good looking, sexy and he adores me.” As Liz described her new man, I felt decidedly
envious. Their first date had lasted an entire weekend. He had sent her 3 to 4 emails every
day since they met a week earlier. After the second date, they had already planned two long
weekends away together.
Liz began to see the infinite possibilities of this relationship. It was just what she needed – or
so she thought. It was only a year and a half since her divorce, during which time, she’d had a
disastrous and humiliating relationship with another AA.
How about you? What kind of people do you attract? If you are attracting the same type of
man or woman all the time and things aren't working out, ask yourself, what is it in you that
attracts them? What kind of man or woman do you want to attract? And how would you have
to be to attract someone like this.
Liz was a highly attractive 46 year old very flirtatious woman who hadn't spent much time
without a man!
She welcomed Andy into her life with open arms, not realising she was making exactly the same
mistake again. Liz was a dandelion seed waiting for an attraction addict like Andy to blow her
every which way. She was also, like many women, an attraction addict herself.
When Liz first met Andy he seemed like a modern-day hero in designer gear waiting to whisk
her away in his new Mercedes to a land of bliss and romance. Later as I considered our
conversation, the envy dissipated and my cynic’s voice asked ‘Is this for real?’ Are there men
out there who are like that? Is romance alive and well and living in Stoke on Trent?
be continued as below...
Swing High Swing Low
Not any more it isn’t. After 7 weeks of swinging from high to low, Liz has finally and
reluctantly broken off with Andy. Why? Andy was an attraction addict [AA]. Andy was
attracted to Liz but he wasn’t addicted to Liz, he was addicted to the perfection that he had
ascribed to Liz and the excitement of the new romance. Liz in turn, being a woman, fell into it
immediately. The more Andy adored and perfected her, the more she adored and perfected him.
Girlie-think - How many children shall we have?
Most women will recognise the 'go off into the future and create relationship perfection with
new man after only knowing him a few hours' scenario! We women do it all the time. There are
plenty of female attraction addicts. As she begins to fantasise about life with 'new man' she
may brush aside tiny matters like her new man has told her he's not the faithful type. They all
know that once he is trapped in the web of desire for her, he'll change! And indeed, unfaithful
man may become faithful man one day or he may not! If this rings true for you, relax.. It is
possible to change and be more open to reality...but that's another article!
Sex Now? and more...
P.S. - Peta Heskell is author of the book Flirt Coach published in the USA by Harper Collins/Thorsons in June 01. She runs the UK Flirting Academy, and coaches
clients privately. She is a frequent media guest in the UK and has run workshops in Florida and Amsterdam, Netherlands.
You can access her website at:www.flirtcoach.com
Following is a list of readings that we recommend for you:
- If you want your lover to be passionately attracted to you, wanting
you, and craving your touch – you've come to the right place
– That is "Instant Sexy Letters"… I highly recommend it.
See what you think... "Instant Sexy
- Are you always afraid you'd do something wrong, or that the
guy wouldn't like it? NOT ANY MORE! If you can't give yourself the
title of Blow-Job Queen after reading this, you'd better put a
mirror in front of your face and see if it fogs up. That is "A to
Z Guide to the Perfect Blow Job"… I highly recommend it. See
what you think... "A to Z Guide to
the Perfect Blow Job"
- With the divorce rate over 55% in the United States today
(and often higher in other countries), it is important to know
your partner as intimately as possible before taking the
plunge!" That is "Compatibility Test"… I highly
recommend it. See what you
think... "Compatibility Test"
- To help you have the most enriching and rewarding
relationship possible, then seriously consider investing in at
least a small amount of study on the subject. That is
Relationship Collection"… I highly recommend it. See
what you think... "Michael Webb’s
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