girlfriend says she loves me and I am "the only one". But when
we go to a bar she has to flirt, hug, and make passes at every man in the
bar. She goes way to far and men get the wrong idea. Most of these are men
she does not know, and a few she does. She says it is all in fun but it
has caused a lot of fights (nothing physical).
thoughts would be helpful. Thank you.
woman is a classic "Attention Whore" (AW). In fact, this
situation (flirting with other guys at a bar) is an exact situation I deal
with in my book, "Being a Man in a Woman's World"!
get upset - and rightfully so - because it is disrespectful of you.
When she with you (probably with you paying the bill!), you deserve 100%
of her attention. Of course, you're trying to be the "bigger
man" by not getting jealous, but frankly, the problem isn't
hers - it yours!
what you need to do: first, go get your testicles back from her purse.
Stand up for yourself and BE A MAN! You don't deserve to be treated like
this, and this woman is an abuser. Worse yet, you're letting her treat you
this way! My brother, she may not have any manners, but what's worse? Her
actions, or you letting her actions happen?
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the very next time she does this, just walk right up to the guy, (with her
there so she can hear everything) and say to him, "Hey - would you
like to take her home? She's available because I'm leaving." Then,
turn and walk right out the door without saying another word. She's going
to follow you like a lost puppy!
she's going to feign some sort of anger - don't worry it's part of this
thing I call "The Test". DO NOT react to it or you will have
lost! Simply say to her, "Look, when you're with me, I deserve and
expect your complete attention. I won't settle for anything less from you
- no options. If that doesn't work for you, just let me know and I'll find
someone with better manners that is worth my attention."
You bet! That's the point. This is a classic "Test" you
hear me talk about so often. Believe me, I talk to women all the time and
they keep telling me the same things: they want a man that knows what he
wants - in his life, and in his relationships - and is willing to
make things that way. Do you want to be this guy? Just handle this Test
once and for all.
strongly suggest that you pick up a copy of my book (you can check my
website), and commit it to memory. Sorry for the plug, but you NEED
this information very badly, or you're just going to continue to get Tests
and more abuse. The problem here isn't just HER actions; it's YOUR
philosophy. No woman I ever date would dare treat me like that. And
believe me, they treat me very, VERY well. By the way, I don't treat women
poorly, and neither should you. But, you should never tolerate ANYONE
treating YOU badly - especially your girlfriend!
you want to have the best relationship you've ever imagined - one where
she adores and respects you, can't want to see you, be with you, etc.,
just get these Tests handled. You deserve no less!
luck, much love…
Dennis W. Neder-Have
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