Dr. Monica Moore of St Louis Missouri
spent 2,000 hours observing how it is that women flirt. She
found that those who get the most response from men are the ones
who send out the most signals. Women who gave out more than
35 displays of flirting signals per hour got about 4 approaches.
The more variety the women used, the more approaches they got.
Some of the signals that Moore noticed were: the darting glance,
short and sustained gazing, primping and preening, smiling, lip
licking, pouting, giggling, laughing, and nodding.
are some of the types of flirting that the were used by the women
in this experiment...
Seek and Zoom In Flirting: Women begin with a
gaze and look around the room followed by a short darting
glance at the prospect, looking away quickly, looking back,
and then looking away again.
Scatter Flirting: Some women flirt alternately
with several different men at the same time until they got a
positive response from one of them.
Look-at-me Flirting: Women can hike up their
skirts to show more leg to a particular man. When men
they are not targeting notice, they can pull down their skirts
until the one they are targeting responds.
Go-for-it Flirting: Should these clear signals fail,
some women will resort to one, final act of desperation by
parading across the room towards their target, swaying their
hips (look at what a good reproductive body I have!),
thrusting out their breasts (I can feed your children!) with
their head held high.
be continued as below...
Flirting is Fun
romantic or sexual overtures.
Starting a conversation by complaining about
something. No one is attracted to a whiner.
Talking loudly so as to draw attention
to yourself. Remember, it also draws as much attention
to the one to whom you are loudly talking.
Asking for a date
on the spot as others are rarely willing to accept such an
offer from a stranger or mild aquaintance.
Buying someone a drink and
then expecting them to spend the night with you.
Sexual Harrassment: Not as long as there is no actual
physical contact or touching.
Being Too Familiar:
A means to frustrate or tease
others (e.g. a woman who flirts seductively
with no intention of going any further).
Wearing overtly sexy clothing to gain
attention unless it is sex that you are genuinely wanting.
A great excuse to talk about yourself
to someone who really wants to get away as fast as they
Something you should give up on because
you get rejected several times.
Keep working at it. In fact, should you decide
to read on, we might be able to give you some good advise and
Being Complimentary: Look
for an opportunity to complement the person with whom you are
flirting. Imagine what it would like to be on the
receiving end of your compliment to determine if it would make
you feel good or not. Having made the compliment,
withdraw to see what kind of response you get. Avoid
sexual compliments at first. The best things to
compliment are clothing, jewelry, hair styles, new car,
his/her smile, and accomplishments.
aware of the world around you and be able to discuss news
events, issues regarding relationships,
and things of interest to the object of your desire.
Being Curious: Most people
enjoy someone who is genuinely interested in their lives, what
kind of work they do, where they got a piece of jewelry, and
the options on their new car. However, avoid any
questions that might be too personal. Wanting to know
the size of her breasts at this point could very well elicit a
very definite negative reaction. The point to asking
questions is to engage him/her in a conversation.
However, do avoid making it sound like an interview.
Also, be willing to reveal some things about yourself.
The give and take should be mutual for a successful
Being Clear: A shy
attempt that is misunderstood should be avoided at all cost.
Smile and make direct eye contact. People need clear
signals. Look into the persons eyes for several seconds,
make sure they return your look, smile, and then look away.
Keep doing this until you get a response. If it is
positive, go for it.
Being Confident: To be
clear when flirting, one must exercise some confidence.
However, avoid coming across as conceited, arrogant, or
self-centered. As they say, "Practice makes
perfect," so, even if you fail miserably the first couple
of times, try, try, try again. You'll eventually get
good at it and the confidence will come.
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