Now, let's get down to business, ladies...
Give Clear Signals: Men are notoriously bad at interpreting
signals from women. Know what you want when you flirt and make
sure your signals are clear and that they convey what you mean.
It’s not fair to flirt with someone for the fun of it, unless
they are obviously flirty themselves. Flirting for fun is fine
when you know someone a little better. If you genuinely want to
meet people then, by all means, flirt. However, if that is
the case, then you should make sure that you know how to separate
the sexual flirting signals from the 'hi, I'm friendly' flirting
Great Attitudes Are Attractive: People love being
around charismatic people because they spread good feelings. Get
yourself into the right attitude for flirting and go for it. Feel
good about yourself and others will feel good about you in return.
Glamorous Clothes & Accesories Draw Attention: If
you want someone to approach you, be sure to wear
or carry something that is eye-catching and noticeable to you
(e.g. jewelry, knit sweater, . You will be surprised how
much easier it is to go up to someone and ask a question about
something unique or attractive that they are wearing.
Getting Situated to be Approachable: Separate
yourself from your friends. If you go out with a group of
friends or even one girlfriend, make sure you separate from them
so that you are more approachable. However, use good
discernment in regard to safety. No man wants to be rejected
in front of a group of women, and he may well feel he cannot
approach you when you are ‘protected’ by a herd of other
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Greeting Him with a Nice Voice: Check your voice.
Does your voice sound like a dental drill or do you wash people in
waves of sensual
sound? It doesn't have to sound sexy, but it should at
least sound feminine, warm, and inviting.
"Get-lost-nerd" Statements Should Be Avoided: If you are not interested, be polite when rejecting a man.
‘Get lost nerd’ is not the way to say "No."
Men who approach women may do so clumsily. If you are not
interested, make it clear and be polite. It can be very difficult
to get up the courage to approach a woman. Refuse someone in the
way you would appreciate being turned down yourself. If you are
sure someone is not for you you can say "I am sure you will
find someone who is right for you, but I am sorry I don’t think
Get Noticed By Being Interested: Cut down the talk
about yourself and ask him open ended questions. Find out about
him. Men love to talk about themselves and feel flattered
when a female shows an interest in them. This also gives him the
cue that you like to know a little about him before exchanging
numbers or accepting a date.
Generate Enthusiasm for His Interests: Ask him what
he enjoys doing. Women and men often tend to fall back on
the line ‘What do you do’? To some men, this may seem
like you are ‘checking for wallet padding’.
Alternatively, not everyone is doing the work they love and the
question may put them on the spot. Men are much more
activity orientated whereas women like to talk about emotions. Asking them what they
enjoy doing in their life will allow find out more about what
makes them tick.
Giving Out Information: If you give out your number,
give the genuine one. Carry a personal or business card to
hand out. This way you know that when you give out your
phone number you either give out the genuine one or not at all.
Imagine what it must feel like plucking up the courage to dial a
woman’s number only to find it is the a local gas station.
Go for It: Make the first move! The vast
majority of men would love to be approached by a woman. If women are
looking for equality then it is only fair that they do their share
of the asking. It will also give you an opportunity to
understand what men have to go through when making a first
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