Protecting Your Options: Some men flirt with women
primarily to get sex.
However, if you put aside that possibility and flirt just to be
friendly you are opening yourself to a wider range of
opportunities. You may well end up with a new lover.
Conversely, if that doesnít work out, you could meet
someone who becomes a good friend instead and who knows someone
that might be more compatible. Keep your options open.
Personal Care Is Essential: Make sure your hair is
clean and your body and breath smell good. You donít have to
douse yourself in after-shave. Take care of personal hygiene
at the basic level. As like seeks like, dirty unwashed
people will end up with dirty unwashed people! Fine if it
suits you but if you are looking for something else, have a little
Personality Goes a Long Way: Women love being around
charismatic men because they appeal to their best feelings. Get
yourself into the right attitude for flirting and go for it.
It takes a little confidence but, then again, practice still makes
Please Her Without Being Pushy: When you buy a woman
a drink, that is all you are buying. Donít expect her to
fall at your feet. Sometimes it is nice just to send someone
a drink, watch when they receive it and smile, then look
away--then looking back again to show your interest. Donít
try to get a woman drunk. Wouldn't it be preferable to
have someone desire you genuinely instead of having their senses
obliterated by alcohol?
Pick Her Out of a Crowd: Donít make the rounds in a
group of women. No woman wants to feel that she is
considered to be second best. Refrain from approaching one
after another in the same group. You'll look like a loser
and the women may think you are desperate. Even if you are,
donít show it.
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Prefer Conversation First: Concentrate on the
conversation, not on getting a date. Most women want to know
what kind of person they are going out with. Make an effort
to get to know her better before diving in for a date. This
way, you will run less risk of being rejected when you do ask her.
Pick Your Compliments Carefully: Offer her only
genuine compliments. Thereís nothing worse than a guy who
has a collection of bad lines (Excuse me, I seem to have lost my
phone number and was wondering if I could borrow yours).
Instead, notice something about her such as her beautiful nails,
her bracelet, or the quality of her voice. Everyone has
something about them worthy of a genuine compliment.
Physical Contact Should Be Limited:
hands to yourself and respect their space. Some women have
no objection to Ďtouchy
feelyí encounters, whereas, others are horrified by it.
Touching can be a lovely way to flirt, but should be confined to
the arms or resting the hand just above the arms and not touching,
until you know each other better. Test the personal space by
moving closer, noticing the reactions, and then moving back a
little to remove the threat.
Phone Her if She Gives You Her Number: If you ask for
a phone number, be sure you use it. Flirting and meeting
people is not about trophy
hunting. It is about making a new connection and having
fun. If you don't intend to use the number, don't ask.
Thereís nothing worse than giving out a phone number and not
having someone call. If you asked for it, use it .
Practice, Practice, Practice: Be yourself.
Thereís no point in assuming a role you think someone wants you
to play because youíll get found out sooner or later. Be
proud of who you are and if you arenít sure how you are at your
best, you might want to do some work on it.
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