am terrible at reading signs from men. I never seem to know if they are
flirting with me or just being friendly. How can I tell if a man is
flirting with me or not? Are there some sure fire signs that maybe
I can look for?
~ Evangeline (28)
Body Language Flirting:
starters, even though a man might be flirting with you, it doesn't
necessarily mean anything. Flirting is
a nice way for people to be playful and have fun. However, there are some
signals that you can send that will help let a man know you're interested
while allowing the two of you the pleasure of him pursuing you.
is essential for a man who has sensitivity. Without a smile he assumes
you're not interested and he doesn't want to be pushy or risk a rude
contact that lasts just a little longer than is comfortable. Watch how
you want to drop your eyes when you look at a man you find attractive.
Begin to allow that look to linger...just a little longer, with a hint
of a smile. Definitely sends a message but yet keeps it feminine, which
conversation, touch his arm a couple of times. That breaks that barriar
and releases the tension that's caused when two people are attracted but
not quite sure where they stand. Do it casually in conversation, maybe
laughiing at something he's said. Just lean into that laugh and touch
his forearm, in a way that says, "Oh you silly, that's very
funny." If you're not sure, watch how other women do it. It should
be absolutely natural. Practice on friends. Actually, practice all these
things, the smiling, the eye contact and touchiing on people with whom
there is no pressure, people you are not attracted to.
questions that get them to talk about themselves...then listen. The best
conversationalist is a good listener. Go to The
Friendship Game at the botton of the left menu and use those
questions to get men to talk more personally about themselves. They'll
think you're marvelous and quite witty.
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the same thing about listening applies. Ask great questions then
appreciate them for sharing.
and in general, don't go into very much detail about your crazy side, if
you have one. A man doesn't want to think you turn into a monster before
your period, or that you can't get along with anyone. What men are
looking for are attractive women (you don't know how un-fussy they are),
who are happy, self-assured, comfortable with themselves, and enjoy
being women. That's all. Oh yes, and a woman who isn't angry at men,
appreciates them, and makes them feel special and needed...like a man.
and in general, don't ever be crass unless you want to be treated
disrespectfully. Don't swear and don't lose control. Be a lady and
you'll go far.
P.S. - This article was written by Kara Oh
published at: http://www.alluringyou.com,
Kare Oh is author of "Men Made Easy"
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