is the way most people determine whether or not a member of the
opposite sex is interested in them. Following is a quick outline
on how you should go about the complex, sometimes fun, sometimes
not so fun, task of flirting. It all begins with your approach.
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person approaches the other. They move into closer physical
proximity. This much is clear: NO approach equals NO possibility
of initiating contact. You must approach!
A woman sits down next to a man in a coffee shop, or a man stands
near a woman in a dance club. This is the first step. Once you
approach, you begin looking for the signs.
person who has been approached will always signal the otherís
presence in some wayÖ a sign. This signal is not like a train
whistle, however, more a subtle body language which you can learn
to recognize. For example, he or she simply may look up, move over
to make room, nod slightly, or signal with a glancing eye contact.
display of total obliviousness to the one who is approaching
generally indicates lack of interest altogether. Donít be
discouraged. But if the one you approached shows absolutely no
interest, then itís time to re-group and try again. But letís
say the approach works. You have your positive acknowledgement,
now what? Time to talk.
two people may then engage in a mild verbal exchange about
impersonal, unimportant matters such as the weather or the scene
around them. The key word here is MILD.
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is the classic place for the clever "line", but
cleverness is not required. At this point, a verbal exchange is
not for the purpose of sharing valuable insights about life or
determining philosophical compatibility. It is just a vehicle to
further the developing contact.
Verbal overtures might include anything from "please pass the
pickles" to "your looking great tonight", to
"have you seen the waitress?". Without some form of
verbal response, it is highly unlikely that the next step will
occur. Letís say all is going as planned. Time for body
a period of time, a couple that has begun to talk may also begin
to orient themselves physically to one another, to turn toward one
another until, if all is goes well, they are fully facing one
another. This is your goal.
step can take minutes or hoursÖ or weeks or monthsÖ to
achieve. Yet, without this physical reorientation toward one
another, not very much can ever happen, so give up on people who
turn their back toward you for long periods of time! But if they
woman or the man (most often the woman) touches the other in a
light, fleeting way. Examples: A couple might accidentally brush
their hands against one another while reaching for a drink, or the
woman might pat the man on the arm in the middle of a shared joke.
The exchange of very subtle, almost glancing touches may continue
for some while, and if all goes well, can escalate into the casual
affections shown by couples who are dating. If youíve reached
this point, then flirting has now become the beginning of a
relationship. The Art of Flirting should always end with the
beginning of a relationship. Now get out there and flirt.
Art of Flirting is really the Art of making first contact. You
only have one shot at making a great first impression. By
following some of the guidelines weíve established in this
article, you should now be equipped to locate, approach, and
ascertain whether or not your subtle flirting has opened the doors
to a new and exciting relationship.
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