I met a very desirable woman recently and need your advice. The woman is
polished, married and black. The evening we met she sidled up close, asked
for kiss and suggested going dancing.
I tracked her down awhile later and asked her dancing on short notice,
that same evening. She said she'd try but wound up not being able to make
it. Following up later with alternative suggestions I eventually used the
word 'date'. Upon receiving this she immediately went into LJBF mode,
asking what I meant by that, telling me she's married, etc.
my first question is what's going on here? What is she/her body really
looking for, given her martial status and knock out attractiveness?
My second question is how can I go about insuring the best chance of
banging her? I haven’t seen her for weeks; we're supposed to meet up to
ascertain what 'date' means. I insisted that kind of conversation would
have to be in person, to which she agreed. My strategy at the moment is to
negotiate something that meets her criteria, while leaving some subtle and
mutually recognized room for maneuver into her.
Dealing with married women is very different from women that are dating or
single. There's a huge amount of stigma applied by family, friends,
society, etc., in order to try to keep married people faithful.
fact is however that many married women feel neglected by their husbands,
and start looking for outside validation. They flirt, kiss, and generally
play guys all the time - all without any intention of taking it further.
Their only goal is to get the attention they aren't getting at home. Of
course, as soon as things get sexual, they pull the LJBF thing to try to
ward it off.
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Unless you're interested in being played by this woman, you need to define
what "dating" means! She's going to push for getting as much
attention, time and even affection as possible without having to give up
anything – all while explaining to her husband that you’re just a
“friend”. You of course need to set the foundation for what you're
willing to give, and what you want to get in return.
When you meet to discuss what "date" means; you should be
absolutely firm. Tell her that you'll only be willing to give her
attention if she's going to give you back what you want. No exceptions.
She can call it anything she wants - even "friends" if that
makes her feel better - but a "date" is exactly that. If she
doesn't agree to this entirely, just tell her to move on and find some
other jerk to boost her sagging ego.
P.S.-By Dr. Dennis W.
Neder, he is the author of
Being a Man in a Woman's World
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