Its amazing how few men really understand women's
Have you watched a porno recently? Notice how women's orgasms are
depicted in the video, if they are shown at all. If they do
show a woman's climax, it is usually faked.
Why? Well, first, there are too many technical "behind the
scenes" things going on for women to concentrate on
themselves. "Move your arm a little forward, push the hair
out of your face, then say your lines..." All of this takes
away from her focusing on all the sex.
More often than not, videos don't show women actually cumming.
Why not? Because most men (the primary audience for porn), don't
know what a woman's climax looks like anyway! So, they don't feel
like they actually have to stage it.
Why should you care?
Many men think that women's pleasure comes just from the
closeness of sex. If they cum at all, its just a bonus. DON'T MAKE
THIS MISTAKE! Women like sex in much the same way as men do. And,
they expect the same satisfaction.
Thus, you should care very much about your woman's
she doesn't get it, she will feel cheated - just like you would.
To help save your feelings she may fake her orgasm. By now,
everyone knows (or at least should know), that women fake
Myth buster: Men
can and do fake orgasms, just
like women do! Men don't do it very often, but they can and do
Women often blame themselves for not being satisfied during
sex. But, if this continues the blame will turn to you. You want
to learn to recognize a woman's "true" climax and find
out what it takes to give it to her regularly.
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What is a "climax" for a woman?
Women report very different things from men when it comes to
the "big O". Some say that it is like waves of pleasure
washing over their bodies, other say that it "tickles",
other describe it as "warmth", etc, still others
describe it as just "deep happiness". Ok, its no wonder
that men are confused by women's climaxes.
Don't let this lack of understanding make you think its all
beyond you however! In fact, if you're ever going to get a second
chance, you'd better get familiar with her ecstasy!
Types of orgasms
Some women report having "clitoral" orgasms or
"vaginal" orgasms and claim they are different from each
other. Others say that any orgasm is just about like any other.
Some women can climax just from being held, kissed or touched.
Some claim to have never experienced an orgasm. Who's right? They
Too, sometimes women that are easily-orgasmic, can't climax at
particular times. Further, they may feel that they don't need to -
just the closeness is enough.
Discover the climax
Every women is different. Your woman has her own quirks, needs,
"secret desires", etc. So, how do you know when she cums?
It can be difficult to know for sure. Here are some things that
Tell her that you don't want her to feel pressured to
climax. If she does that's great, if she doesn't - that's ok
too, as long as its all right with her.
She doesn't need to "fake" her orgasm to please
you. Again, if she makes it - great! If not, then next time.
Ask her what makes her engine rev - what "works"
for her - then do it! Pay attention to what she tells you, and
if something doesn't make sense, ask her to clarify.
When she starts getting aroused, pay attention. Notice if
she flushes around her neck and chest. Notice if her nipples
get erect. Pay attention to her breathing and the sounds she
makes. These are all great signs that she's on her way.
If you're inside her, you'll notice that she begins
"gripping" you just as she starts to cum.
Finally, when you think she's made it, ask her! There is
nothing impolite about this, and it shows that you're
interested in her satisfaction.
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Once she makes it the first time, she may very well be ready
for more. Some women can just keep going and going (like the
Energizer Bunny!) Men got the gift of peeing while standing, women
got multiple orgasms - nobody ever said life was fair!
P.S. - By Dr. Dennis W.
Neder, he is the author of Being a Man in a Woman's World
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