There are two different kinds of recovery involved when your spouse has an affair:
There's Personal Recovery - regardless of whether the marriage survives
There's Marital Recovery - where there's a rebuilding of the marriage.
Some people who stay married DO personally recover - and some who get a divorce
Some people who stay married DON'T personally recover - and some who get a divorce
DON'T personally recover.
So here are some keys steps involved in Personal Recovery:
Accepting the fact that it happened (no more "if only..." or "why me?")
Understanding the complex reasons for affairs (not just "personal
Deliberately focusing on dealing with it and talking openly about what happened.
Allowing time to heal.
Believing it's possible to recover.
you can quickly and easily discover if your lover is CHEATING
on YOU... Here is your opportunity to quickly learn the
truth about what's been going on behind your back...GUARANTEED!
P.S. - Peggy Vaughan is a relationship expert, specializing in dealing with the issue of extramarital affairs. She reaches an international audience
through her own Website at: http://www.dearpeggy.com
Following is a list of readings that we recommend for you:
the most painful and devastating experiences, The Affair, you are not
alone. Claimed as the Bible of The Affair, Dr. Bob Huizenga’s
Free from Affair gives you a step-by-step guide
to help you break through the confusion, fear and move on with A
Greater Life ahead. Break
Free from Affair
You can save
your marriage TODAY! With impressive success rate of 90%, Dr.
Lee's proven and effective approaches will rescue
your marriage starting from today, and you could have the
relationship of your dreams! Save
Your Marriage... see what you think...
found the effective 4-Step "strategy" to help you survive
the relationship crisis, heal your broken heart and bring
back your love. That is called Bring
Back the Love of Your Life! I highly recommend it. See what
you think... Bring
Back the Love of Your Life!
How to have the GREAT
SEX you can ever have in your life? How to have MULTIPLE
orgasms you can have TONIGHT? How to make your partner crazy
about you sexually? Killer
Orgasm, we highly recommend.
Your Internet Porn Addiction-
Do you suspect that your loved one is addicted to Internet
pornography? What are the options for treatment? How to rebuild
your life free from Internet porn? "Treating
an Addiction to Internet Pornography" explains to you the
answers for the above.